Escape Painful Sexual Intercourse and Vaginal Spasm

Dyspareunia, which is painful or difficult sexual intercourse, and vaginismus, contraction of the opening (mouth) of the vagina, making entry of the penis extremely difficult or impossible, are almost always of psychoneurotic origin. A rape, or a repugnant husband might predispose a woman to these disorders. Other psychoneurotic causes include a religious or rigid upbringing that considered sex shameful, a fear of sex, a defense mechanism against pregnancy, extreme over anxiety to have children, prudery, a woman's counter reactive response to husband whose body odor, bad breath, callousness, or insensitivity is odious, an impotent or anxious husband who infects her with his troubles.

Several physical determinants induce this condition as well, such the improper insertion of a diaphragm or intrauterine device (IUD); a prolapsed uterus or ovary, the remains of a hymen, the results of bad abortion, a marked disproportion of penis and vagina, old vaginal tears and scarring from childbirth, presence of disease such infection, endometriosis, fibroid tumors, dryness of vaginal mucosa resulting from lack of hormones or of proper stimulation, smegma (an ill-smelling, white, cheese like substance found around the external genitalia), and a loss of vaginal elasticity after menopause. In addition, a simple ignorance of sexual anatomy and function may provoke either disorder.

The major symptom, which leads to irritation and pain, is a lack of lubrication (precoital fluid) that is normally produced when a woman is aroused, making entry of the penis smoother and easier for both partners. The precoital fluid also lowers the acidity of the vagina so that the sperm can survive. The classic symptom is, of course, failure to orgasm.

Physical causes should, of course, be corrected. If the disorder is due to ignorance or insensitivity, the only answer is frank discussion or family counseling. If the cause are psychoneurotic, marriage counseling or professional therapy is well advised, particularly if the disorder is long-standing.

In mild cases, soothing ointments, sitz baths, and use of mild lubricant are effective. Feminine hygiene, which includes cleanliness and being clean-smelling, is essential for good health and physical attractiveness. If the labia are inflamed they should be kept clean and dry.

In general, intercourse should be suspended until all scars, inflammations, and irritations are healed. See your doctor immediately you. Sex is for marriage people so can enjoy it well when you have a wife and not a girlfriend.Decision Points

Appropriate Preventive Measure To Avoid Snoring

Have you ever experienced annoyance posed by the sound changes of person snoring before? Can you imagine after stressful day's work if your partner will not allow you to sleep well because of his or her fearful snoring sounds. Snoring annoy to an extent that you will like to put trees into ears.

Snoring is due to vibration of the soft palate or elongated uvula, which is often caused by sleeping on the back with the mouth open and breathing partly through the nose. Any obstruction in the nose will increase likelihood of snoring. In Children, many cases of snoring are due to enlarged tonsils and adenoids. Adenoids are tonsil-like growth in the back of the nasal passage in the throat. Inflammation of the adenoids are called Adenoiditis.

Extremely obese persons and the elderly have a greater tendency to snore; it is also a common feature in drunkenness and in patients under anesthesia. Normally, snoring is harmless but annoying to the listener (subject is never aware of it).

If he is kept from lying on his or her back, he or she will stop. Snoring, however, is a grave symptom when the subject is in coma.

Brain injury: if the patient is unconscious and snoring this is a serious sign. There will usually be bleeding from the mouth, nose, or ears.

Nasal Polyps: polyps are soft, moist, grape-like growths hanging on stem in the mucous membrane of the nose. The cause is usually an allergy. Symptoms are obstruction, excessive nasal discharge, loss of smell, headache, occasionally snoring.

Adenoiditis: the adenoids situate in the back of the pharynx, near the nasal passages at the Eustachian tube. Extreme infection of the adenoids can cause otitis media, fluid collections in the middle ear, and hearing loss. Primary symptoms are breathing through the mouth, nasal speech, lowered mental ability. Antibiotics will relieve mild infections. Drinking or eating anything cold (ice cream) can bring about some relief. Repeated infections may indicate surgery. Gargling is useless.

Stroke: Snoring reflects severity of the stroke if the patient is in coma.

We can save our marriages and relationship if we will pay attention to prevent the way we snore. Try and keep your sleeping partner to sleep without any disturbance. Love your sleeping partner as yourself.